Jane Thomas

Jane has researched sexuality for many years. Her articles give examples from real life so that the reader can learn from others. She uses straightforward language and all the images are non-pornographic.

Jane provides constructive sex advice for free because she believes that access to unbiased sex education is a basic human right. She suggests ideas for sex play and helps couples with issues that arise in long-term sexual relationships. Her books are on Amazon.

Anyone, who has orgasms, can explain explicitly how they achieve them. Jane asks women to explain the turn-ons, the anatomy and the stimulation technique involved to differentiate between sexual response and emotional rewards with a lover.

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… the wives may be more tolerant of their husband’s extra-marital relations……


Women never contest these myths because of their general embarrassment over sex,…


If you are a man whose partner is less interested in sex…

For men to enjoy sex they need to feed their sexual fantasies,…


Honor, fidelity, and success in marriage are understood to involve the complete…


Most men have fucked me with a minimum of foreplay, have been…

The availability of reliable contraception, such as the pill, has given women…


Wow. Very few people will dive into such a difficult truth for…

The most distinctive aspect of sexual physiology is the rhythmic muscular movement…


Men assume it is their role to provide a woman with the…


… people who report most guilt about having fantasies during intercourse have…

I always enjoyed sharing physical intimacy with a lover but this is…


The female more often discovers masturbation independently and without any previous knowledge…


Many women had spent rather long periods of time in their lives…

Sex drive is instinctive and biological. It is not easily subdued by…


It is rare to hear a positive note like yours. I have…

The frequencies of orgasm … had stayed more or less on a…


If women had a sex drive then they would also suffer all…


The male obsession with orgasm leads 50% of women to fake it…

Even though from the very first time, I realised that sex was…


The very fact that upper (social) level males fail to get what…


Most of the men in my heterosexual career… wanted oral stimulation from…

Companies sell vibrators to women so we naturally assume that they must…


Thank you for sharing your research, thoughts and even experiences, Jane. I…

Female Responsiveness

Jane provides scientific (non-anecdotal) evidence in support of her conclusions by:

  • interpreting the research findings to account for erroneous assumptions made
  • explaining the biological precedents relating to genitals and responsiveness
  • discussing how men and women’s sexual behaviours reflect their responsiveness
  • defining how orgasm is achieved by anyone regardless of sex and orientation
  • presenting female masturbation to orgasm as an instinctive sexual response
  • demonstrating that no one can explain porno orgasms rationally (in terms of erotic turn-ons and consistent anatomy).

Porno orgasms are those women fake (by emulating porno actresses) as a turn-on and to reassure male ego, which are not supported by any facts, logic or research findings.