Jane Thomas

Jane has researched sexuality for many years. Her articles give examples from real life so that the reader can learn from others. She uses straightforward language and all the images are non-pornographic.

Jane provides constructive sex advice for free because she believes that access to unbiased sex education is a basic human right. She suggests ideas for sex play and helps couples with issues that arise in long-term sexual relationships. Her books are on Amazon.

Anyone, who has orgasms, can explain explicitly how they achieve them. Jane asks women to explain the turn-ons, the anatomy and the stimulation technique involved to differentiate between sexual response and emotional rewards with a lover.

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The muscular movements which occur during sex response are usually involuntary.


Trains and buses around the world at rush hour provide an opportunity…


Some couples find it easy to talk and share together, to explore…

Few women challenge the media portrayals of the spontaneously orgasmic women because…


… the highest-rating males were masturbating with average frequencies of 23 per…


All too many men still seem to believe, in a rather naive…

A woman accepts the stimulation provided by male lovemaking because of the…


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The muscular action which is involved when a female masturbates in this…


We talk of women of pleasure or sinful women. It’s not that…


Reality and fantasy are further apart for women than for men…

The women who were brave enough to talk to me admitted that…


The so-called sex instruction which is given by parents and schools usually…


… even if a man has a strong physical desire for orgasm…

A woman cannot orgasm as the receiver of intercourse because she cannot…


You are great Jane. Your contribution to society is motivating all of…

As in most other types of sexual activity among females (except coitus…


Young women especially often put up with pain and discomfort to provide…

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Men and women are mismatched in this respect because a man is…

Our enjoyment of sexual pleasure will always depend to some degree on…


Men go to prostitutes because they can pay for the sexual relations…


It’s over after his orgasm. Isn’t that the natural end of sex?

A vibrator is a piece of hard plastic. Unlike the real flesh…


The more appropriate information that is out there the more people will…

Female Responsiveness

Jane provides scientific (non-anecdotal) evidence in support of her conclusions by:

  • interpreting the research findings to account for erroneous assumptions made
  • explaining the biological precedents relating to genitals and responsiveness
  • discussing how men and women’s sexual behaviours reflect their responsiveness
  • defining how orgasm is achieved by anyone regardless of sex and orientation
  • presenting female masturbation to orgasm as an instinctive sexual response
  • demonstrating that no one can explain porno orgasms rationally (in terms of erotic turn-ons and consistent anatomy).

Porno orgasms are those women fake (by emulating porno actresses) as a turn-on and to reassure male ego, which are not supported by any facts, logic or research findings.