Jane Thomas

Jane has researched sexuality for many years. Her articles give examples from real life so that the reader can learn from others. She uses straightforward language and all the images are non-pornographic.

Jane provides constructive sex advice for free because she believes that access to unbiased sex education is a basic human right. She suggests ideas for sex play and helps couples with issues that arise in long-term sexual relationships. Her books are on Amazon.

Anyone, who has orgasms, can explain explicitly how they achieve them. Jane asks women to explain the turn-ons, the anatomy and the stimulation technique involved to differentiate between sexual response and emotional rewards with a lover.

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… a sexual response in any mammal involves … a build-up of…


No one thought that Freud, as a man, might be unqualified to…

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A man should look for what is, and not for what he…

If female orgasm is so easy, then why do so many people…


It is unfortunate that the products of academic studies are not more…


I can’t say I liked answering these questions, I would die of…

If someone can choose to enjoy orgasm, they must also be able…


Jane, You are highly influential regarding sex research & education. Sex is…

Our data on the limited number of females who respond to seeing…


My research has involved asking many difficult questions, most of which I…


So what turns her on?… A man who makes her feel ‘safe’…

By talking to women in everyday life I learned that my ‘problem’…


The average female is not aroused by nearly so many stimuli as…


One of the problems I had when I was married was that…

The timing of orgasm cannot be controlled consciously. It is only a…


Thank you for sharing this with many women and men that are…

It is difficult for the average female to comprehend why males are…


In fact, foreplay only extends a woman’s waiting time and she may…


Many men think long intercourse is the key to having orgasms during…

I also question not only WHY but also HOW exactly is a…


The most common error which the male makes concerning female sexuality is…


I’m sick to death of sexuality – everywhere sex sex sex! So…

… it is unreasonable to attempt orgasm using stimulation you cannot control….


G’day to you Jane! Great respect for your accomplishments and successes, your…

Female Responsiveness

Jane provides scientific (non-anecdotal) evidence in support of her conclusions by:

  • interpreting the research findings to account for erroneous assumptions made
  • explaining the biological precedents relating to genitals and responsiveness
  • discussing how men and women’s sexual behaviours reflect their responsiveness
  • defining how orgasm is achieved by anyone regardless of sex and orientation
  • presenting female masturbation to orgasm as an instinctive sexual response
  • demonstrating that no one can explain porno orgasms rationally (in terms of erotic turn-ons and consistent anatomy).

Porno orgasms are those women fake (by emulating porno actresses) as a turn-on and to reassure male ego, which are not supported by any facts, logic or research findings.